Is She Hiding Something By Being Nice To You?
The 3 ways her behavior has changed that you need to watch for are:
- Being more loving
- Hanging out less with her friends
- Starts talking more about new interests or hobbies
Being More Loving
Maybe she’s finally decided you’re worth the effort and has come to realize that she needs to do more in the relationship.
There’s nothing wrong with this. So you’ll need to reciprocate and do more for her. The good part of doing more for her is that it’s also a test, if she begins again to pull back then you know she’s playing you. Softening you up for a breakup that she just hasn’t pulled the rigger on yet. Or your girlfriend is cheating on you and she’s trying to pull the wool over your eyes by suddenly being nice to you.
Hanging Out Less With Her Friends
If she’s being nice to you when you’re around, but the time she usually spends with her friends has lessened, it’s obvious she has something, or someone, else to spend her time with.
You need to ask her friends what they have noticed about her that has recently changed.
If they are hesitant to tell you what they think, then they’re probably in the know and don’t want to share this news with you. The number one reason here is that she’s cheating on you and feeling guilty about it, so that’s why she’s nicer to you when you’re together.
Talking About Her New Interests
If your girlfriend suddenly has new interests and hobbies it’s because she’s found new inspiration.
If this is something she discovered on her own, great. Encourage her to continue and know that she’s suddenly being nice to you because she has found new inspiration and new reasons to be happy that also positively impact your relationship.
On the other hand, if her new interests involve people you don’t know, that she doesn’t like to talk about and she’s being mysterious about when and where her new interests take her, you have a real problem on your hands.
You’re going to need some serious advice to get her back, if its not too late.