Cause And Effect With Men

The less confrontational you are in asking to get what you want, the more you'll actually steer a man to make the choice you want.

How to Nicely Manipulate His Behavior

There is a difference in the responses you’ll get from men that are directly due to how you start any interaction.

We see these interactions every day but we seldom initiate a behavior to indirectly get what we want, we directly behave a certain way to get the direct answer/response we want.

[Adapted from The Modern Siren by Rori Raye]

This “Relationship Balance” happens in business, friendship, family and romantic relationships.

Ask and answer. Push forward and pull away.

Think back over your day so far and find the acts of “Cause and Effect” and “Relationship Balance” that happened to you today. Were you in control or being led?

Which do you prefer?

Could you have made this incident any different by changing what you did?

Sure you could have.

We are directed not only by our own actions but how we react to other people’s reactions.

This “decisive reaction” is solely under our control 66% of the time, the remaining percentage being impulsive reaction.

Women are naturally more mature than men. It’s this maturity level that allows women, along with understanding “Cause and Effect” to lead men to understanding the bigger picture in relationships, Whether you’re looking for more of a commitment, a proposal leading to marriage, as long as you understand “Relationship Balance” you can keep the man you want to catch.

Let’s say that you are dating a guy and you really want the relationship to move forward. You want more of a commitment from him. Do you speak loudly and confrontationally about being “exclusive”? Do you harangue him until he agrees to whatever you say just so he can go?

There is no balance in the above examples. You need a different approach, one that isn’t demanding, one that isn’t confrontational.

Instead there should be some leading examples, another couple’s happiness, a planned trip together in the future, that takes a man into a future that does include you, and excludes other women romantically.

Showing a committed future through examples is the best, least resistance creating method.

The less confrontational you are in asking to get what you want, the more you’ll actually steer a man to make the choice you want.

Rob L. editor and writer
This article written and/or edited by Robert Lee.


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