How Your Girl Acts When You’re Amazing In Bed

We've talked to thousands of women about their sex lives and have heard it all, how some guys are great, mediocre, and unfortunately the most common complaint, after sex they remain unfulfilled and unsatisfied.

This article is inspired by “Revolutionary Sex” by Alex Allman.

How to be Great in Bed

The most surprising thing is that most guys are completely unaware of how they stack up in the bedroom.

So how big of a deal is it anyway?

And how do you know where you stack up?

Let me tell you something…. it is a huge deal!

Women crave sex far more than men. If you don’t believe me, then you are not giving her good sex. Period.

The difference is that women only want good sex.

As a guy, you can have pretty mediocre sex and still finish. And even if the sex is phenomenal, most of the time you are still only going to finish once.

Women on the other hand, usually don’t finish at all from mediocre sex.

And no matter how “close” she tells you she was, or how good she tells you it was, if she’s not “getting there”, she is disappointed.

And if it happens regularly we actually start to resent it, and even start to resent you for not learning how to do it right.

But from great sex a woman can easily finish 3, 5, or even 10 times. The difference between amazing and just OK sex is not nearly as significant for guys as it is for girls.

And here’s something else you should know:
Guys that can give us amazing sex are few and far between.

So if you are the guy giving a woman amazing sex, it changes everything about how she’ll feel about you and how she treats you.

In fact, guys who I have coached into bedroom rock stars often describe it as “eye-opening” and even “life-changing.”

There are a lot of signs – both in and out of the bedroom – that you are not satisfying your woman. Here’s just a few signs your girl is not satisfied…

Signs IN the Bedroom

  • Your girl doesn’t always come, and often doesn’t finish during intercourse
  • You frequently have to initiate the sex
  • She is reluctant to go down on you, to have sex in certain positions, to try anything adventurous

Signs OUTSIDE of the Bedroom

  • You feel like you have to “earn” sex, by taking her out or buying her things, or by being on your “best” behavior.
  • You think your girl just doesn’t like sex as much as you do. She has to be in the right mood and not tired or stressed from work.
  • She nags you about household responsibilities, how you dress, how you act
  • You and your girl aren’t having as much sex as you used to, and not as much as you would like to

If these sound like you, you aren’t alone, so…

How Does Your Girl Act When You Are Giving Her Amazing Sex?

Make no mistake about it, once you start giving your girl amazing sex, everything, and I do mean everything about the relationship changes.

Inside the Bedroom

  • She wants to have sex more often than you do
  • She is eager to please you, enthusiastic to go down on you and try anything you suggest
  • She regularly comes from intercourse and finishes multiple times

Outside the Bedroom

  • All nagging will end almost immediately
  • She buys you gifts, pays for dinners, is eager to please
  • She is eager to do you favors

Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with buying that special lady a present now and then, and you certainly should, but it shouldn’t be as a way to earn something from her.

One guy said he was really struggling. He was dating a girl he really liked but he was hanging on desperately. He knew she was losing interest quickly, thought she might be cheating on him, and knew it was only a matter of time until she left him for someone else.

He was doing all the of the things that so many guys do when they are hanging on for dear life… buying her expensive dinners, gifts, anything that he thought would win her back and get her attracted again.

But these well intentioned things were only sealing his fate. 

He was seeming more and more needy, and confirming that sex was something he had to earn from her. Of course once you have this imbalance no relationship can survive.

The imbalance was extending outside of the bedroom – soon she was making all of the decisions, what do to, where to go, who he hangs out with, what he wears… He was losing all control.

Luckily he found some sex advice and was able to turn it all around.

Boy did things change! Soon she was the one begging him for sex – she couldn’t get enough! She would always be kissing him and sitting on his lap. And just a couple of weeks later she asked him to move in with her.

Another guy was getting blown off by a girl he thought he was seeing. In fact, he was out at dinner with her one night, and she had arranged for a guy (her real date) to meet her at the same restaurant after their dinner was over!

He knew he was about to end up in the “friend zone” and thankfully got help before it was too late (Great sex starts way before you get to the bedroom!)

With a little coaching he was able to get his relationship back on track, and after they had sex things really started to change. Just a few weeks later she paid for a beach house for the weekend so she could have him all to herself. Needless to say it was a wild weekend! 

Remember these two things about being great in bed:

  1. Women crave good sex more than men crave sex
  2. If you are giving your woman amazing sex, she will do everything she can to please and keep you, both in and out of the bedroom

So with this in mind, why aren’t more guys great in bed? 

Rob L. editor and writer
This article written and/or edited by Robert Lee.
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